The Crime of Polygamy

Nov. 18, 2021, Updated Feb. 2024

You can either listen to the video series I created on this topic, which includes additional insights, or check out the entire essay below including the expansive Resources section toward the end.


“Joseph Smith was not a polygamist!”

I can hear the gears turning: “Wait a minute. Hold the phone. What do you mean Joseph wasn’t a polygamist?” Yeah, you heard me. Joseph Smith never practiced polygamy. In fact, he was very adamant in condemning polygamy and called anyone who was engaged in such practice an adulterer. Hyrum was the same way.

Most people are unaware that the current section 101 of the Doctrine and Covenants is not what Joseph originally included in the Book of Commandments. The original section 101, written while Joseph was alive, states that one man and one wife are to marry in public where everyone can see it and that polygamy is a crime. Here is the original 1842 edition of D&C 101 given on October 1, 1842, in Nauvoo, Illinois:

“According to the custom of all civilized nations, marriage is regulated by laws and ceremonies: therefore we believe, that all marriages in this church of Christ of Latter Day Saints, should be solemnized in a public meeting, or feast, prepared for that purpose: and that the solemnization should be performed by a presiding high priest, high priest, bishop, elder, or priest, not even prohibiting those persons who are desirous to get married, of being married by other authority…The clerk of every church should keep a record of all marriages, solemnized in his branch.

All legal contracts of marriage made before a person is baptized into this church, should be held sacred and fulfilled. Inasmuch as this church of Christ has been reproached with the crime of fornication, and polygamy: we declare that we believe, that one man should have one wife; and one woman, but one husband, except in case of death, when either is at liberty to marry again. It is not right to persuade a woman to be baptized contrary to the will of her husband, neither is it lawful to influence her to leave her husband. All children are bound by law to obey their parents; and to influence them to embrace any religious faith, or be baptized, or leave their parents without their consent, is unlawful and unjust. We believe that husbands, parents and masters who exercise control over their wives, children, and servants and prevent them from embracing the truth, will have to answer for that sin.”

To be honest, I am grateful that we do have the current version of D&C 101 though. That section is packed with prophecy and an allegory of servants, hedges, and towers that are extremely important for us to understand today. So I guess knowing both exist is a win/win. :)

Let’s begin unpacking

Learning about such events has required that I do a lot of unpacking. In fact, most of the content on my website has had similar effects. Each of us has a box where we place certain “truths.” When something in our little box shows signs of molding, we don’t want it spreading to the other fruit, so we take it out and put it on a shelf, hoping that maybe it’s just souring a little and not completely rotten. Maybe the light was hitting it in a funny way and we just weren’t seeing it clearly. Unpacking isn’t a bad thing, quite necessary in fact, so long as we keep the good fruit. And boy do we have some good fruit.

To give you a little taste of what this did for church culture in the early days we need look no further than when the revelation on polygamy was publicly taught to the saints. During the 1852 general conference, Brigham Young had Orson Pratt introduce the text for D&C 132 which promotes and defends polygamy. (The only evidence for this supposed revelation was the claim that Emma burned the original and a copy was miraculously saved.) What was the outcome? By 1857, several thousand saints (many of them European) left the church or were excommunicated. It is most likely that they were unaware that polygamy was being lived secretly by certain church leaders for nearly a decade. That’s one piece of church history that usually doesn’t get brought up in Sunday School. They realized the fruits of polygamy were moldy and they didn’t want it spreading to their other precious fruit.

I’ve pondered upon this exodus the past few days and wondered why so many saints decided to leave. I mean, many of them knew Joseph personally, they heard what he taught, and now they were comparing the fruits of current church leaders. Many of the saints knew, far more personally than we ever will, the type and character of Brigham Young. I’m sure there were rumors swirling around, but they tended to “put it on the shelf”, hoping that they had heard wasn’t true. And when the emperor presented himself (announcing polygamy) he was found to have no clothes. Or better yet, he was found to have two faces. Many of these people felt they had been lied to and they weren’t putting up with it.

Now I get it, polygamy is a massive ball of negative energy that has been swirling around inside LDS culture for nearly 200 years. The church has tried to explain away why the practice was ok, and how it fits into the prophetic role and mission of Joseph. But their narrative simply isn’t true. Due to the complexity of deciphering LDS polygamist history, I am simply exploring my personal opinions on the subject, and what that means for us today. I’m also including resources at the bottom of this essay where you can learn for yourself whether Joseph promoted or condemned the practice of polygamy. Given what we know Joseph said on record while living, (condemning the practice) and still taking the word of subsequent church leaders stating that he lived it secretly, Joseph would at minimum be a liar, if not a fallen prophet. I believe he was a greater man than what most of us were taught.

One of the horrific outcomes of the church holding to the narrative that Joseph practiced polygamy is that many people around the world discount the words and prophecies that he shared, including the Book of Mormon. This is a real tragedy. The church actually prevents people from learning the truth, about Christ and His atonement, by holding to their current narrative. In many ways, it can drive people into atheism and agnosticism. The word “polygamy” causes such a divide that many people disregard anything Joseph ever said or did. I find it interesting that Joseph was trying to open the hearts and minds of the saints to so much more than they were willing to accept. He was trying to teach them higher doctrines, but he often found his efforts to be futile:

“There has been a great difficulty in getting anything into the heads of this generation. It has been like splitting hemlock knots with a corn-dodger [a piece of corn bread] for a wedge, and a pumpkin for a beetle [a wooden mallet]. Even the Saints are slow to understand.

“I have tried for a number of years to get the minds of the Saints prepared to receive the things of God; but we frequently see some of them, after suffering all they have for the work of God, will fly to pieces like glass as soon as anything comes that is contrary to their traditions: they cannot stand the fire at all. How many will be able to abide a celestial law, and go through and receive their exaltation, I am unable to say, as many are called, but few are chosen.” (Joseph Smith, Jr., January 21, 1844, History of the Church, 6:184-85)

If Joseph condemned the practice of polygamy, then what have we done to the women of the church? Put yourself in their shoes. From the moment they learn about polygamy they resign themselves to an eternity of being “the second wife.” Imagine the internal struggle that women have had. Many of the women of the church are full of faith. They’ve held tightly to the doctrines taught about the true nature of the Godhead and the truths presented in the Book of Mormon. These feelings burn deep within their souls. When they are introduced to the historical narrative of polygamy, they find themselves at a loss. How can a woman of faith marry these conflicting ideals?  

Most members also don’t realize that polygamy didn’t go away. That’s right, it is still lived and practiced today but has been taken behind the curtain so to speak. Men can be sealed to more than one woman in the temple. Essentially continuing the practice but in a different realm. This concept alone has spawned countless internet discussions and threads. It is also common to hear the backroom whispers that polygamy will either come back during the Millennium or at minimum be lived in the Celestial Kingdom by those who are the most righteous. I’m still developing my own thoughts on how relationships will or will not be made in the eternities, but I know for sure that polygamy, as lived by early church leaders, is not the answer for me.

Jacob 2 vs. D&C 132

Here's one of those pieces of evidence that should be quite clear for the spiritually-minded individual to expose the blatant corruption of doctrine. Let's compare what was said by the Savior in Jacob 2 with regards to David and Solomon and their abominable practices, and what the Lord supposedly said in D&C 132:

Jacob 2
23 But the word of God burdens me because of your grosser crimes. For behold, thus saith the Lord: This people begin to wax in iniquity; they understand not the scriptures, for they seek to excuse themselves in committing whoredoms, because of the things which were written concerning David, and Solomon his son.
24 Behold,
David and Solomon truly had many wives and concubines, which thing was abominable before me, saith the Lord.

D&C 132
1 Verily, thus saith the Lord unto you my servant Joseph, that inasmuch as you have inquired of my hand to know and understand wherein I, the Lord, justified my servants Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, as also Moses, David and Solomon, my servants, as touching the principle and doctrine of their having many wives and concubines.

In Jacob 2 the Lord condemns David and Solomon for their abominable practice of polygamy, while in D&C 132 the Lord "justified" David and Solomon. There is significant evidence that section 132 was written after Joseph was murdered. So who's the person teaching incorrect doctrine here, Jacob or Brigham? Who's the liar?

We could add to this list the inspired translation edits that Joseph made to the Bible. Joseph, more than almost anyone, knew that what David and Solomon had done was wicked. In JST 1 Kings 3:14 we read, “…and thou shalt not walk in unrighteousness as did thy father David.” And here in JST 1 Kings 11:4-6, “…and Solomon did evil in the sight of the Lord, as David, his father, and went not fully after the Lord.” And again in JST 2 Samuel 12:13, “And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the Lord. And Nathan said unto David, The Lord also hath not put away thy sin; thou shalt die.”

The elephant in the room

If Joseph condemned the practice of the plurality of wives, and Brigham promoted the practice as an exalting doctrine, where does that leave the church today? Can they both be right? What about the transfer of keys and authority? What about priesthood succession? What about the endowment? What about eternal marriage and family sealings? Is the “church” true? This is one of the reasons why I felt polygamy was such a pivotal element to church history because so many things apparently hinged on its validity or corruption. But, does it really matter? It depends upon how you look at things.

Chew on this for a minute. There are two very interesting camps of people who rely on this narrative from the church. TBMs (True Believing Mormons) and the Critics. Both of them need the polygamous tales to be true. For the TBM, admitting that Joseph didn’t live polygamy brings down the house of cards and brings up all of the questions I just mentioned. It makes them super uncomfortable. And for the critics, they also need it to be true. So much of their argument for tearing down the church hinges on this false narrative. In reality, it’s easy picking to point out the “lies” and “falsehoods”, the perceived imperfections. And they’d be right, but only if Joseph did what the church today says he did. It’s sort of a catch-22, a “damned if you do, damned if you don’t” scenario. And then you have those who believe what Joseph taught and thought of him to be a better man. We’ll call them IDGADs. (I Don’t Give A Damn) They are willing to throw off false traditions and lies to know God. They understand that church leaders have made massive mistakes through the years. Most of them are willing to forgive the church if they’d just come clean. The difficulty for IDGADs is once they challenge the status quo, they become outcasts.

When I first began to awaken to these realities, my mind went on a bit of a psychedelic journey. I began to extrapolate the outcomes of how this new reality fit into church culture and doctrine. Everything began swirling around and blurring together. Questioning foundational beliefs and mantras was a little scary, to be honest. As I mentioned in the beginning, I had to unpack a lot of things. I had to rediscover the Book of Mormon, in particular, 2 Nephi 28 and Mormon 8 became very well-read during my scripture study. Same with the words of Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, and other beautiful apocryphal writings. If you’ve ever had to ask yourself any of these difficult questions, please keep your faith and your relationship with Christ and with our Heavenly Parents, and not in the arm of flesh.

Returning to center

After going down this road for a while I had to come back to my center, to my core beliefs. There were fruits I had experienced that were simply beautiful. I could not deny how sweet and delicious they were. This is when I began to read the scriptures with new eyes. I began to see the fulfillment of prophecy in a whole new light. I also began to realize that the doctrine as taught by Jesus Christ and His true disciples is beautiful in its simplicity.

One of the central stories in the Book of Mormon is the appearance of Jesus Christ to the righteous few who survived the destruction caused by the wickedness of the people. One of the first things He does is give authority to baptize in His name. And here is where the simplicity of His doctrine becomes evident: (3 Nephi 11)

38 And again I say unto you, ye must repent, and be baptized in my name, and become as a little child, or ye can in nowise inherit the kingdom of God.

39 Verily, verily, I say unto you, that this is my doctrine, and whoso buildeth upon this buildeth upon my rock, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against them.

40 And whoso shall declare more or less than this, and establish it for my doctrine, the same cometh of evil, and is not built upon my rock; but he buildeth upon a sandy foundation, and the gates of hell stand open to receive such when the floods come and the winds beat upon them.

The baptism of water and fire is what prepares us to become like Jesus Christ. Our hearts have changed. We become new creations, even new creators in Him. Our focus becomes centered upon caring for others the same way Christ cares for us, eventually developing the ability to have “no more disposition to do evil”. (Mosiah 5:2-3) When we have the Spirit with us, we are taught all things that we must do. (Moroni 10:5) The path we must follow is straight and narrow, even leading to the gate whereupon Christ employs no servant. And do we stop there? No. There are many higher laws, principles, ordinances, and doctrines for us to pursue into the eternal rounds.

There are probably a few of you who feel a little overwhelmed right now. And rightly so. Over the past few years, I’ve never had to ask so many questions about my faith and what I believe. If you want to learn more please check out the resources below, and know that it is ok to ask questions. Asking to know the truth is what brought about the Restoration in the first place. Please know that my intentions here are not to tear down faith, but to build faith upon the rock of Christ. We cannot love Christ and live a lie. If anything, come to know Him for yourself and realize how much He loves you.

Shalom


EDIT 10.22.23 / It has been nearly two years since I published this essay and a lot has gone on since that time, especially in the number of people studying the events surrounding polygamy. People have spent tens of thousands of hours compiling research, examining documents, and sharing their thoughts. While I applaud their efforts, for me, the decision to either believe or reject the early practice of polygamy as taught by Brigham is to look at the fruits. What are the outcomes that are inherently built into preaching such a doctrine?

To believe polygamy is a heavenly law is to believe the heavens are out of balance. You have to believe that any society that practices polygamy as a general doctrine has fewer righteous men. Or, at minimum, you will have fewer married men than women. The birth rate of men vs women is almost 50/50. To suggest polygamy is both a pattern of higher living or doctrine is to make bachelors of men here and in the heavens. A polygamist society robs many young men of a potential wife and, given the physical inclination and desire to procreate, may push them into all manner of unnatural expressions of those desires. At a minimum, a polygamist society will have many men who are frustrated in their desire to fulfill one of the earliest commandments given to man, that of multiplying and replenishing the earth.

The best way to know what Joseph thought on the subject is to read his own writings published while he was alive. I’d highly encourage you to check out the accordion section below titled “Joseph, Times & Seasons, April 1844 - condemns spiritual wifery.” This was written only a few months before he was murdered. Per the LDS church narrative, Joseph was practicing the very thing he was condemning. Either Joseph was the worst sort of religious hypocrite, or he was a man true to his word and faithful to his wife.


Disclaimer: Only a small portion of my thoughts and feelings are contained within this essay. It is nearly impossible to condense a lifetime of study, thoughts, and impressions, into a few paragraphs. I value and encourage the need for altering perspective as new light and knowledge is acquired. One of the best ways to know a person’s heart is to sit down and talk face-to-face, perhaps while consuming a mild barley drink.

STUDY RESOURCES

If you’d like to explore this topic further please see the linked resources below.

Disclaimer #2: I may agree with all, some, or maybe just a few words of the content listed below. I may also strongly disagree with elements that are shared. Take the Spirit as your guide as you study all things.

Book: Joseph Smith Revealed: A Faithful Telling: Exploring an Alternate Polygamy Narrative

Book: The Secret Chamber: Spiritual Wifery and the Doctrine of Christ

Book: The Exoneration of Emma, Joseph & Hyrum

The Foolish Fable of an “Angel with a Flaming Sword” David M. Price--2022

132 Problems: Revisiting Mormon Polygamy (YouTube channel)

Book: Joseph Smith Fought Polygamy: (Volume 1) (Volume 2) (Volume 3)

Joseph Smith Papers, Original D&C 101

The Irreconcilable Voices in D&C 132

Hyrum Smith’s writings on polygamy crossed out in the Joseph Smith papers

Last testimony of Sister Emma

Mormon Polygamy Timeline of Events

Book: The Apostasy of the LDS Church was Prophesied, But the End is Not Yet

Book: Teaching for Doctrines the Commandments of Men: Tradition in Modern Mormonism

Orson Pratt, first public discourse discussing polygamy, Aug. 29, 1852

The Flaming Sword of Death, Shanhi Buddy

Mormon Polygamy Documents

Joseph Smith - Honest Seer or Lying Polygamist?

Pure Mormonism: Why I’m abandoning polygamy

Young Apologist 101: lamp-shading

Podcast Episode 2: Of Demigods and Dark Knights

In Defense of Joseph: Sarah Pratt Revisited

In Defense of Joseph: LDS Statement on Polygamy

Matt Palmer: A Tale of Two (or Three) Josephs, and the Magic Sperm Theory

Exonerate Joseph: He fought polygamy? (timeline)

Book: The Exoneration of Emma, Joseph & Hyrum

132 Problems: Revisiting Polygamy (YT Channel)

Whitney Horning Video: Removing the Stain of Polygamy from the Restoration / PDF version w/ citations

Greg Hymas blog: Polygamy, Plural Marriage and Spiritual Wifery

Jacob’s Journey, Awakening to the false narrative of polygamy

A Proposed Reinterpretation of Jacob 2:30 (My opinion, raising up seed is through procreation and literal offspring.)

The Reluctant Polygamist (website)

Mormon Polygamy: Brigham or Joseph - who started it and who lied? (video)

The sad affair of William Hill and his wife Keziah Downes